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My Pastor Just Told Me that the Man I've Been Dating for 3 Years is Not Meant for Me - Woman Cries Out

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The young lady has opened up on social media about what her pastor told her concerning the relationship she has been building with her boyfriend of 3 years.

According to her, the pastor has just told her that she and her man are not meant to be and that they should each go their separate ways.

This situation has left her completely heartbroken.

Below is how she put the story:


Husband Opens Up: I'm Tired of My ‘Silver-Spoon’ Wife

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My new wife is obviously not interested in creating a home for us. I have a good job, which means I am often away during the week, but she seems to resent doing any housework. She is supposed to be in their family business, but she scarcely goes there.
I assumed when we got married the deal would be that I’d earn the money while she kept our home ticking over. But I’ve never got a clean shirt or anything decent to eat – and the house is always in chaos. All she wants to do is see her friends. 

Her parents have agreed to help with domestic helps but for how long? She’s always been spoilt by her parents but they had assured me she could cope with marriage.
How do I make her understand that I can’t function like this? It’s a bit too early to be complaining to her parents. 
- A newly married man sent this to Aunty Bunmi. Below is the reply he got:

Dear Paul,
If you two have never sat down to discuss how you’re going to live your new life, you can’t blame your wife for not knowing what the ‘deal’ is supposed to be.
Her transition into a good house-wife is going to take a lot of efforts and patience from you. 

This is a new journey, especially because of the way her parents raised (pampered) her, and compromises will be needed all along the line.
But you can’t compromise unless you talk – so talk some sense into her.

How Kemi Olunloyo Was Allegedly R*ped and Impregnated by Her Father, the former Oyo State Governor (Video)

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Pharmacist and blogger, Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo known for her controversial statements and bullying on social media is currently under fire as a Dublin-based Ibadan woman who happen to grow up in the same locality with Kemi at Molete in Ibadan has revealed defaming details about her family.

Tokunbo Aboderin revealed Kemi s*xually harrassed her 3 children who were later taken from her by the United States government for safety purpose. In the video that was mixed with English and Yoruba languages, the woman revealed Kemi's father, Victor Omololu Olunloyo who was the governor of Oyo state in 1983 had a s*xual intercourse with her after which she got pregnant and bore a child.

Following social media trends, the drama emanated when Kemi accused bereaved Nigerian veteran actor, Jide Kosoko of using his late wife, Henrietta Kosoko for money-making rituals. Tokunbo Aboderin debunked her claims and categorically stated that mental illness runs in Kemi's family.

Watch the video below and you will be startled at the revelations made by Tokunbo Aboderin:





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Woman Leaves Her Own Baby to Drown on the Beach...You Won't Believe Why She Did it (Photo)

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A woman who shocked people by drowning her own baby in a river, has given a very weird explanation about why she did it. 

A mother who left her 15-month-old daughter to drown on a French beach told a court on Monday she had fallen prey to "witchcraft".

Fabienne Kabou, 39, from France, faces life in prison for the premeditated murder of Adelaide in the northern resort town of Berck-sur-Mer on November 19 2013.

Her lawyer described her as "extremely intelligent … but subject to irrational beliefs".

Ms Kabou had checked into a hotel and asked locals about the tides before reportedly breastfeeding the child on the beach that night and leaving her as the sea came in. The toddler was found the following day still in her pram.

She later told police she had chosen the town, on France’s Channel coast between Calais and Dieppe, because “even the name sounded sad”. "Berck" sounds like the French word for "yuk".

The next day she returned to Paris by train.

After a ten-day search, police used DNA from the pram to trace Ms Kabou to the home she shares with her 63-year-old painter-sculptor boyfriend, Michel Lafon, in Paris, where she was arrested.

The case shocked France and prompted hundreds to take to the streets in a so-called "White March" demonstration against child cruelty.

Ms Kabou on Monday told St-Omer court: "I put an end to her life because it was easier that way. Everything went perfectly. It was as if I felt carried along, I just couldn't say stop."

When asked by the judge what her motives were, she said: "There is no other explanation than witchcraft."

She told the court she had spent €40,000 on "witch doctors and healers" because she was plagued with evil voices, and "walls that shouted at me ceaselessly".

"Witchcraft? It is the conclusion I've reached by default as I have no other explanation," she said.

Her lawyer, Fabienne Roy-Nansion, read out a psychological report saying: "Her psychological status is largely influenced by cultural references and an individual history linked to Senegalese witchcraft that radically altered her view of the world."

However, Jean-Christophe Boyer, lawyer for L'Enfant Bleu, an association against child cruelty, dismissed her witchcraft claims as a cynical defence strategy.

"You are faced with a woman who is very intelligent and knows that she mustn't call herself crazy but give the experts enough fodder to appear mad. Witchcraft is perfect, plus it conforms to her culture," he told the court.

Ms Kabou, born in Dakar, Senegal, was raised in an affluent Catholic family and was described as a brilliant student.

She is said to have an IQ of 135, well above average. She moved to France in 1995, where she abandoned an architecture course after two years and embarked on a philosophy degree.

After terminating two pregnancies before in 2012, she gave birth to Adelaide alone at the art studio she shared with Mr Lafon. She had not consulted a doctor during the pregnancy and neither parent registered the birth with the authorities, so there was no official record of the girl, who was named after her grandmother.

According to French press reports, Ms Kabou recounted the moment she left her child to die by saying: “I put her down, I spoke to her, I told her I was sorry.

"She was fine, I think. She didn’t feel in danger, I was next to her, on my knees. I gave her a long hug … she wasn’t exactly asleep but she was calm … I don’t know how long I stayed there, saying I was sorry, talking to her. Then I turned on my heels and I ran.”

The trial continues.

Drama as Woman Embarrasses Gov. Ayodele Fayose For Owing Her After Business Deal (Video)

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A Nigerian blogger based in Dublin has accused the People's Democratic Party chieftain, Ayodele Fayose of owing her after a publicity service she offered during the election campaign period. 

The woman who appeared on this video recording that has gone viral on the internet is Esther Adetokunbo. She is a blogger based in Dublin.

According to her, the relationship between her and Governor Ayodele Fayose went cold over his uncivil antics such as the alleged election rigging saga with the aid of security operatives and the physical assault of a High Court judge that was linked to Fayose.

She called out Governor Fayose for not paying her for campaign adverts she placed for him on her blog and also revealed the various threats she has endured from the governor's brother due to her reportage of the violence in Ekiti.

Esther went further to bash Fayose for his unruly comments on President Muhammadu Buhari who she feels maybe old enough to be his father.

Watch the dramatic video clip of her rants below:



Father R*pes, Impregnates Daughter Because His Wife Is Denying Him S*x

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The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a man, Ike Iwuanyanwu, for raping and impregnating his own 15-year-old daughter, Priscilla (pseudonym) at Ajao Estate, in the Isolo area of the state.

It was gathered that Iwuanyanwu, who was a company driver living on Anuoluwapo Street in the estate, was arrested on Wednesday after the matter was reported at the Ajao Estate Police Division.

Mr Iwuanyanwu had also allegedly beaten his daughter and wife, warning them not to disclose the messy incident to anyone.It was learnt that the victim had been taken into custody by the Lagos State Government.

According to Punch, Priscilla’s mother, however, informed her family members on Wednesday, who went to the girl’s school to confirm the story from her.

The case was reported to the state Ministry of Youth and Social Development, which informed the police.

A neighbour of the Iwuanyanwus, who spoke on condition of anonymity, said the victim was the first child of the family, adding that the father had allegedly confessed to the crime.

She said, “The man is a driver and the girl is his first child. None of us knew anything about the incident until he was arrested. The only thing we saw was that the man beat up his wife and daughter late in the night on Tuesday.

“The girl was pregnant and the father tried to hide it. It was her school that informed Lagos Government. The girl confessed that it was her father who r*ped and impregnated her. The Lagos State Ministry of Youth and Social Development alerted the police and the man was arrested.

“The suspect did not deny that he impregnated the girl. He knew the government was involved and he had no hiding place. We learnt he told the police that his wife did not allow him to have s*x with her and he yielded to the temptation of r*ping his daughter.

“The girl’s mother told her family members, who then went to her school. They did not know the school authorities would get the ministry involved. The matter was also reported to some child rights workers in the Oshodi area.”

Priscilla’s mother allegedly took the 15-year-old to a place where the pregnancy was aborted.

The pregnancy was said to have been aborted before she was rescued and taken into custody by officials.

The police arrested Priscilla’s mother on Thursday for involvement in the alleged abortion.

The Coordinator, Domestic and S*xual Violence Response Team, Lagos State, Lola Vivour-Adeniyi, said the victim was safe in government’s custody.

The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, SP Dolapo Badmos, confirmed the sad incident, adding that investigation was ongoing.


Two Pastors Allegedly Caught Having S*x in Enugu

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Two men of God, a Pastor and an Apostle were on Friday June 17, caught pants down having s*xual intercourse in Ngwo community of Enugu North Local Government of Enugu State. 

Below is an eyewitness account shared with Newest Rivers:

"Around 1.00am in the morning two men were caught having sexual intercourse. One of them is a pastor and the other is known as an apostle. The so called pastor who was discovered to be the man in the gay relationship had been reported earlier to the vigilante group of Ngwo neighborhood by a boy of twelve who claimed he was raped by the pastor and had Fluid poured into his mouth after the abuse.


The vigilante group did not prosecute the pastor after the report because there was no concrete evidence. They resolved to monitor the pastor from that day unknown to him. It was on this day, 17th June 2016 that he was caught in the act of gay s*x and all said about him by the young boy he molested was believed. The pastor denied the report of the twelve year old boy. " I only masturbated him and kissed him" he said. He further disclosed he is of Imo state origin"

My Husband Keeps Requesting for the 'Doggy Style' He Watches in American Films - Wife Opens Up

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A newly married woman has lodged complaints about her husband's reluctance to give her the desired honeymoon experience despite her dedication to loving him.
Joro Olumofin has shared the story of married woman who is craving for a topnotch honeymoon in Dubai or South Africa. According to her, she had done her all s*xually to satisfy him but all no avail.

Read the story below:

Shocking!!! You Won't Believe What 8 Men Did To This Young Female YABATECH Student In Lagos (PHOTOS)

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A young lady, Adegun Busayomi has recounted a very sad experience she had in a bus in Lagos with 8 men who made sure she experienced hell.

She took to her Facebook page to share her awful experience in the hands of kidnappers. In a long post, the lady who is a student of Yaba College of Technology (YABATECH) was mishandled, beaten and was almost raped in an Oshodi-bound bus.

Below is how she shared the emotional experience below (sic):

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I woke up today with a smile on my face with full strength & a vision to start a beautiful day…but it all turns out to be a bad crying day, dat I can never 4get in my life.

On my way to work dis morning I entered oshodi bus from fadeyi. Immediately I entered, d guy on my left side started complaining dat d one at d bk was trying to pick his pocket next thing he changed position to my right side & said onipa wa oooo….next thing Immediately d one at d back hooked my neck and said don’t shout.

D one beside the driver said allow her to lay down on d floor…Dey drag me flat on d floor… He collected my bag started asking question WHR do u work, I said I am student whc sch, whc course, wht level my name my state….I keep answering d question….he picked my ATM he asked 4 my pin I told him he gave it to one of dem and they dropped him.



I started crying if this is actually my end, are they going to use me, are they going going to kill me so many things started coming in to my mind, I remembered my mum & my siblings d 27years ago story DAT can’t be forgotten in my family…..

I keep begging dem not to hurt me d man in front, said if they found so so amount in my acct they won’t hurt me but if I give dem wrong pin or no money in my acct they will call my family or they will rape me till I lose my last breathe, I started praying silently calling 4 mercy they were 8 guys……one was busy touching my breasts one hooked my neck down one used his legs to pin my legs 2gether I keep crying calling God to save me.

Next thing d guy dat droped called dem and d one in d front pass somthing to d one at d bk they told me to close my eyes but I didn’t said to my self if am going to die am going to open my eyes and see everything.

Next thing it was pepper he put pepper in my two eyes my breast and he was trying to open my trouser zip but he couldn’t I was screeming I can’t see,was trying guiding my eyes not to put more pepper trying holding my jeans not to put pepper in my vagina thinking of dey still want to rape me after all they collected from me my phones, powerbank, my sis money in my bag and d change I had there too they packed everything and dropped me on d floor at coker going to Oshodi and left.

Till now am still not my self Hv never be handle like dat in my life. My terrible day I just want to close my eyes and 4get everything but I can’t, it keeps playing on my head and is hurting me more

Thank God for saving my life.

Mother Pours Hot Water On 11-Year-Old Daughter Over Missing Money (PHOTO)

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A mother allegedly burned her 11-year-old daughter after accusing her of stealing R20 in Botshabelo, South Africa last week. To make matter worse, she waited two days before taking the girl to the hospital.

The girl’s aunt (centre) told Daily Sun the trouble started when her sister accused her own daughter of stealing R20 from her. The angry mum apparently told the girl to fetch boiling water and when she brought it, she told the girl to pour it into a wash basin. She allegedly then threw the water over her daughter’s back.

The aunt said she found out what had happened when she went to visit her sister on Sunday, June 12. She said she had no choice but to go to the cops.

"The poor girl sustained burn wounds on her back and left arm. I know my sister is very abusive towards her children. What makes me very angry is that although the girl was badly injured on Thursday, she waited two days to go to hospital. All I want is for my sister to get help before she does something drastic."

Police spokesman constable Peter Kareli said a case of assault was opened against the mum and cops are investigating.

"The woman was arrested on Monday, June 13, and will appear in court again soon" Kareli said.

Source: Daily Sun SA

Controversy as Business Man Faints After DNA Test Shows His 4 Kids Belong to His Neighbours

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A distraught man has fainted after the DNA test conducted on his four kids showed he was not their biological father but his neighbours'.

In a magazine front cover news making rounds online which has already gone viral on social media, a businessman identified as Musa Luyomba reportedly fainted after seeing the result of a DNA test which revealed that the four kids he had with his lovely wife, were fathered by his neighbours.

Where this dramatic incident happened or when, is still yet to be ascertained as at the time of filing this report, but it has already sparked a lot of outrage on social media.

How a Homeless Mother Was Caught Dumping Baby at Lagos Orphanage

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A young lady has been caught after she attempted to dump her 27-day-old baby in Magodo area, and has blamed the harsh economy in the country for her action.

Around 9.00 a.m on Sunday, attention of officers of Rapid Response Squad (RRS) was drawn by some residents and traders after young lady attempted to dump her 27-day-old baby in front of an orphanage in Magodo area of Lagos state.

According to reports, the lady who blamed the harsh economy in the country for her wicked action, was about dropping the baby along CMD Road when she was arrested and taken to the RRS office in Magodo.
“Around 9.00 a.m. on Sunday at Magodo, the attention of the RRS was drawn to a young lady who was suspected to be dumping a baby in the front of an Orphanage. 

“The operatives got there and brought the situation under control,”
a police source, who pleaded anonymity, told Lagos Metro.

The suspect identifed as Serah Jegede, a native of Imesi Ile in Osun State, reportedly went to the orphanage home with the intention of handing over her baby to somebody there, and however did not hand over the baby to the officials, since it was a Sunday and the senior officials of the orphanage were not around.

When questioned about her background, the lady who admitted that she could no longer take care of the baby due to her environment and lack of money said: “I came to Lagos in 2009. I lived with my mother at No.1, Ejo Street, Igando.
“It was my mother that used to pay the house rent. One day, we didn’t just see her again. She didn’t come back home.
“She didn’t leave home with anything; all her things are still there. I don’t know her whereabouts. But when the rent expired, I had no choice but to leave the house. That was over a year ago. I live inside market, just any space to sleep.”


On who was responsible for the pregnancy, Serah said: “I only know him as Sunday. I don’t know his surname. I don’t know his parents.


“I don’t know his whereabouts too. That day, I went to sell pure water. Before I came back, he had packed all his belongings and disappeared, leaving me behind. I gave birth to my baby at Ikotun market,” she said.

Serah also told the RRS operatives that the baby was yet to be christened, since she had no intention of keeping her.

At the RRS office, succour came the way of the lady and her daughter as policemen and women, led by the commander, Olatunji Disu, showered them with gifts and money as the lady and her baby were later transferred to the Isheri divisional police station.

Samuel Eto'o Marries His Long-Term Babymama (PHOTOS)

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International football star Samuel Eto’o tied the knot with his long term girlfriend at a small ceremony in Italy. He married his wife, Georgette Tra Lou, at a church in Stezzano, a small municipality 25 miles northeast of Milan on Tuesday.

The couple have been together for more than a decade, and have two kids.










Goodluck Jonathan's Cousin and Wife Are Still in Kuje Prison Over $40m Contract Scam - See Latest Update

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Goodluck Jonathan's cousin, Robert Azibaola and his wife, Stella who were recently granted bail by a Federal High Court in Abuja following their trial over an alleged contract scam, are still in Kuje prison.

According to Vanguard, Investigation has revealed that the couple, who are answering to a seven-count criminal charge bordering on alleged $40 million contract scam, has been unable to fulfil the bail conditions handed to them by the trial court.

Justice Nnamdi Dimgba had in a ruling on June 8, granted the defendants who are facing trial alongside their firm, Oneplus Holding Limited, bail to the tune of N1 billion.

They were directed to deposit N500 million each, as well as produce two sureties in the like sum.

The court maintained that the sureties must be owners of landed property in either Maitama or Asokoro districts of Abuja, and must produce evidence that they have paid income tax for the past three years.

It stressed that the registry of the court must verify and confirm that all the conditions were perfected, before the defendants could be released from Kuje prison. He was arrested on March 21 this year by the EFCC.

“What the EFCC has not told the world is that the government is actually owing Robert and his company the sum of $4 million for the job he did which fetched the country over N1 billion in revenue.

“We have already filed a plea with the court to soften with the stringent bail conditions so that our brother can return home since he was arrested on March 21 this year by the EFCC."

How My Boyfriend Disappeared With My N580,000 - Lagos Prostitute Cries Out

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A commercial s*x worker who gave her name as Becky broke down in tears after the man whom she trusted and wish to marry duped and absconded with her money at Ajegunle area of Lagos State.

According to her who had gone to report the matter to the police, she said the N580,000 was money she had saved, which the fleeing suspect, Stephen Onyeukwu, ought to have used to pay her bride price.

Onyeukwu was supposed to have gone to save the money in a bank account, pending when they were both ready for the marriage. But he disappeared with it.

Becky said: “I never knew he is a fraudster. He went to bank and did not pay the money. Each time I called him on phone, he would tell me to forget about the money that I was his ‘Mugu’ (prey). He said I would never see him in Ajegunle again. He tricked me and I fell for him.”

Onyeukwu was said to have met Becky in a hotel on Ojo Road where he expressed his love for her. They started dating and were eight months into the relationship, when Onyeukwu proposed marriage. Becky accepted.

She recounted: “Stephen used to sleep in my hotel room. He would wait for me to service my last customer for the day. On that fateful Friday, I gave him N580,000 to pay into my bank account.


"He disappeared since then. I knew something was wrong when I didn’t receive alert.”

Becky said that every time she called, he would yell at her to stop troubling him.

“God will never forgive him. I know how many men had s*x with me before I saved that amount.


"He promised to marry me and even went with me to our church. Our pastor liked him. He swore that he would marry me or he would die. He told me that he would never disappoint me. I believed him because of the way he was behaving.

“We were preparing to get married and I gave him the money so that he would have money to pay for my dowry. I told one of my police friend and the police are looking for him. I have been crying since that day. I cannot sleep. I love him apart from the money. But now I have lost all. I lost my love and I lost my money.”

Bride Openly Refused To Kiss Her Man On Their Wedding Day (PHOTOS)

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Wonders shall never end... This makes one to wonder if she was forced to marry the man?

After exchanging marital vows in the presence of family, friends and invited guests, the officiating pastor did the expected by asking the groom to kiss his bride. But what happened next is shocking...







 

The groom stepped forward to play sweet love with his bride but, to the surprise of everyone, she turned away. Ouch! Some say it could be as a result of the fact that her parents have been talking to her "harshly" because she got pregnant for the man and thus forced her into the marriage.

Beyonce, JayZ and Their Daughter Blue Ivy Attend The 2016 CFDA Fashion Awards in NYC

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Queen Bey, Jay Z and their daughter, Blue Ivy, looked amazing at the 2016 CFDA in New York on Monday. Beyonce won the Fashion Icon Award. More photos after the cut...




 

 

My husband is Not A Real Man, I Don't Want To Die – Wife Tells Court

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Anna Oshomogbe, 45, has asked an Igando Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve her marriage with husband (Edmund) because his family controls her home. She told the court that Edmund with whom she had two children in their 18-year-old marriage could not make decisions on his own as he is being told what to do by his family.

"My husband’s mother and brothers are controlling our home. If we discuss anything, my husband will first go to his family to consult with them, what they say will be my husband’s final decision. I am just like a maid, my decision is always rejected. In fact, I don’t have a say in my matrimonial home."

She continued, “My husband always spends his salary with his brothers at a beer parlour and after drinking to stupor, he will be staggering and falling into the gutter. He urinates and messes up everywhere in our flat whenever he is drunk and most times, he beats me without reason,” she said.

Anna accused her husband, who has failed to appear in court after receiving several summons, of being an irresponsible husband and father. “When my daughter fainted when she had fever, I called my husband to come home so that we could take her to the hospital, he said that he was in a beer joint and that he could not come.
“He does not sleep at home most times as he stays with his brothers or mother. He always tells me that nothing can separate him and his family. I pay the house rent and the children’s school fees because my husband refused to pay,” she said. 

Anna claimed that her husband asked her to go to his village for spiritual cleansing. “My husband is forcing me to go to his village for cleansing; I don’t just understand what the cleansing is all about. Two of my husband’s elder brothers’ wives had gone to the village for cleansing, they died... after returning to Lagos. I am afraid because I don’t want to die now,” she said.

The wife presented a text message sent to her by her husband that she should go to his village for cleansing and that he would not appear in court for any dissolution.

The court president, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, ordered the court bailiff to serve the husband again and thus adjourned the case to June 28 for possible mediation.

Couple Finally Got Married After 44 Years Of Dating (PHOTOS)

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Sally, who had four children from a previous marriage, agreed to go out with him – and they haven’t looked back since. Though they have always been deeply in love, the couple only got engaged last year.

The couple who have been living together since, raised four kids, and watched as their family grew to include 13 grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. After a couple of heartbreaking losses within the family though, Sally and Colin decided to take getting married seriously.






3 Reasons Why She Won't Go Out With You

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This is for all those guys out there who don't even have an idea why they are constantly being rejected by a girl. If you really want to land on a date, it's time to realize what is wrong and start changing yourself. Girls are quite particular with their partners. It's either you don't have the qualities that they are looking for or simply put... you are not extending any effort. Women don't want guys who make them feel unimportant. What's the point of dating a girl if you don't intend to love her?

Assuming that you are after a serious relationship with the girl you are about to date, here are some "must-knows" for guys who are completely oblivious to their flaws.

She has no idea that you are courting her.

Girls can be naive too, especially those who are quite close to guys. If you are planning to court your best friend, the first thing you have to do is clarify what you feel towards her. Do not rush things. An immediate change of your treatment towards her might scare the girl to the extent that she would choose not to go with you on a date.

Slowly reveal your feelings to her and do not add pressure on her shoulders. Remember that in the first place, she thought you were just a friend. She might feel betrayed with your prompt declaration of love since she expected you to value your friendship. You need to be honest about everything. Reassure her that whatever her decision will be, your friendship will remain the same.

You are too unique for her taste.

Okay, your approach might be way too weird. You frighten her and she thinks you are a pervert and you might eat her alive. Sorry for the procrastination but before you attempt to even talk to a girl, check yourself in the mirror first. Indeed, looks don't matter in a relationship but they do play a vital part in making first impressions.

Don't shock her with a direct invitation on a date. Get to know her first. You can bring her some fascinating flowers or buy her some chocolates to erase her bitterness against you. This is not solely for her purpose but also for you to examine closely if she is indeed worthy of your time. Talk to her friends and discover what she is fond of. This will help you determine if you are actually compatible with each other. Compatibility is an important thing to consider if you want things between you to work out.

She's not ready to go in a relationship.

If you have used up all your hidden gimmicks just to make her say "yes" on a date but the answer is always negative, there must be something wrong with her. Involve her in a serious conversation and ask her if you absolutely have no chance of winning her heart. Be straight to the point, going around in circles will only prolong your agony. If she assures you that you are a good guy but instantly provides you with meaningless alibis, no doubt, she is just not ready for a relationship. For all you know, the previous guy who has courted her might have broken her heart into pieces and she is not yet finished fixing them back together. In short, she has still not moved on. She still needs time and space to recover what she has lost before she could give you the love that you deserve.

Women, in general, are very complicated. It takes time and patience to completely understand them. Be constant in your effort of showing her your love. Soon, without you knowing it, she will eventually agree to your most awaited date.


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